im not fat im pregnant!!!!!!!!
hello my friends and fans hahhaha…well i have come a cross an issue with people i can not name! they are always telling me how huge i am and it doesnt end!.I have tried and not let it get to me as i have been focusing on a posotive preganancy. T he thing is im not that big,i have seen and heard of people that are much bigger then myself. I think this group of people know its upsets me!!! im not going to obsess but im very determind to get back to my pre baby weight…..then they can blow it out there butt! hahaha but for now im going to throw the comments to the wind and ignore them completly and avoid them at all costs! this is a special time that im going to spend loving my changing body and my baby that is growing each day….the point im making is that some people have nothing better to do then be nasty and horrible! dont they realise its only making them look bad? this week i have learnt a very special life leason,people are always going to give you advice you dont want and need,be ass holes and the fact of life is it doesnt end or start at pregnancy!!! and i have decided i dont care!!! this is my life and im going to be a mum..and im not going to spend the rest of my life caring what other people say and do.. this is the fram of mind im going to have with my new life that is fast approching….im pregnant not fat and im beautiful!!!
this week we are doing the hospital tour which is so super exciting!!! and im organising hospital bags etc so ill let you all know how it goes …i have had lots of rsvps to my baby shower and we are looking like having 28 ladies there!!! i have had major baby brain thinking my shower is this sunday noooo its on the 8th next week so im so excited to blog that event and have lots of pics for you all …well till next time xoxoxooxoxoxooxooxox mandy
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Im Petrea, Its hard to say not to worry about what people are saying but it is hard and it gets to you i had my dad call me fat for my whole pregnancy and i really wasnt that big, i cried for a lot of my pregnancy because of it but i thought one day hey F**k you i am growing a beautiful little person i need to gain to make sure that she had the healthist start in life. i hope i could help a little bit
Petrea
Hiya!!
I put on about 18kgs with each of my pregnancies, so I wouldn’t worry too much about your baby bump!! Could be worse, my mother told me when my youngest was about 2 or 3, that she had never seen me with so much weight on!!!!!! I was (and am) a size 12 (tallish). Go figure, maybe some of these people should use your mirror to take a look at themselves- LOL
You enjoy your Baby Shower and make sure you have lots of nice yummy fattening cakes…
Send your guests to www.groovygromets.com.au to find you a special gift LOL..
Hi mandyskye,
I’m 36weeks pg and have put on 20kgs- much to the disgust of my Nan who has always been obsessed about mine (and everyone else’s!) weight. I was 1kg above my goal weight when I fell pregnant and I’m sure I’ll get back there… someday!
In the mean time I am focused on growing my healthy bubs, and it sounds like you are too.
All the best with your pregnancy
xoxox
Thank you for your message it was so nice of you too say, but i meant every word in my blog its funny how one minute your out young and having fun then the next you are at home happy talking, playing and caring for your beautiful baby.. Yeah melbourne is a great place i really like it here
I don’t know why but that seems to be how people are these days; just when you are really happy with things they try to put you down. Don’t let them get to you, just feel sorry for them. At least if you wanted to you can lose weight down the track, they will be assholes forever!! Haha!
As for myself, I was 6 months when Kaia was born, & I had already put on 15kg! When he was in hospital for 3 1/2 months just sitting in the hosp each day I was totally stress eating crap hospital food & put on another 15kg! When Kaia was still in the hospital, a friend asked me if I was pregnant again cos I had put on so much weight!! I couldn’t believe how insensitive he was, as if I didn’t have enough to worry about!!!
Honestly, in the photos that you have posted up you look totally gorgeous!! You don’t look at all fat, just like a gorgeous pregnant woman!